Been there, done that. When in my children's, and grandchildren's homes I try very hard to keep my big mouth shut. However, if I am watching the children at their homes or when they are in my home I do as I deem necessary. My home is my turf and unruly children are not appreciated. I think you did well to not give in to the 2 year old in your own home. Many young mothers just don't want the stress of disaplining (sp) the children and go for the quick fix. You, on the other hand, went for the lasting lesson. Bravo!!!