I would give them the gifts anyway. You made them to give for this Season, so do it. Fulfill your Christmas spirit this year for yourself. And, following through on this will give you closure on your projects and on your planning for this year. You can know that you completed what you set out to do.
And, in the end, it is about giving from your heart, which is what you are doing.
So give.
Next time, decide again whether you want to start such heartfelt gifts to everyone or not, knowing the family might again not do full exchanges.