Oh honey, I feel for you! I'm not a Grandma yet but I was a grand-daughter and I CHERISH every single thing they gave me.
I don't understand how it could be tossed somewhere, sorry.
But please don't let one person spoil the joy that another person would get by having a quilt made by you. Just be selective.
I am protective of quilts and all treasures given to me. And I really don't want to spend my time on something that will be misused.
HUGS