I'm just about finished with a baby quilt for my grand-nephew, he's 6 mos old. I don't know if the mother will like it or not but I'm truly not worried about it. If she doesn't, she can do whatever she wants with it. I had fun making it and I learned a few things along way, that's all that matters to me. I believe once given, it totally out of my hands; and I'm not sure I would say anything to anyone because that could cause hurt feelings that might never heal. Its a risk I wouldn't take.
Keep quilting for the joy it brings you. And I believe that there will be more who will enjoy your work than not. Chris