There was another thread a few weeks ago along this line, so there are lots of unloved quilts out there, and the advice pretty much the same, once you give it, its not yours so let it go, dont be hurt and move on and do what you want to do, don't let the inconsiderate actions of others take away something that gives you pleasure. Just choose your recipients more thoughtfully in the future. Teenagers just don't usually have the experience to appreciate much that they didn't have to work for, but that too will come.:)