Originally Posted by dunster
Make the quilt, because it's really for your daughter. But talk to her privately about the problem and how it's affecting the children. This is child abuse, and someone should protect the children.
Been there, done that. I tried talking to her (multiple times) about him.... She hates his negative influence on the kids but with both of them being special needs kids, she is overwhelmed as it is, and absolutely can't imagine parenting by herself.