Prayer is powerful. Maybe kill them with kindsness... Maybe attach a note to the gift telling how much you love them and appreciate the good role models they are to their family.......NOT!
You agreed to make the quilt. Finish, knowing that you are doing the grascious thing. Maybe your kindness will make them finally come to the understanding that, maybe they don't really deserve your gift of love. At any rate, you are doing the kind thing. Feel good about making the quilt for the nondeservers!!! hee hee