Originally Posted by cafegold2
Thank you . I needed this point of view. My SIL has a 12/6 birthday. Several years ago I bought him an expensive Alpaca cardigan so he could layer at work as needed. He sat at my dinner table after opening it and mocked about how he would look like "Mr. Rogers". Would that he were more like that man. The occsional foul mouth to my grandsons has made me want to cry in the past. No gifts from me since.
Don't put up with it. You are better than this! If he cannot see that, he does not deserve your time, and forgive me, but he doesn't deserve your daughter, either.