Originally Posted by JJs
I said before - this woman is being exceedingly rude because you LET HER DO IT.
It's YOUR STUFF - you do NOT have to apologize to her because she doesn't have YOUR STUFF - it's YOUR STUFF
It's YOUR HOUSE, YOUR STUFF, where does she get off rummaging through YOUR HOUSE AND YOUR STUFF....
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I agree. You can only be treated like a doormat if you lay down and let them.
You can stand up for yourself and be polite at the same time.
"I'm sorry, but I can't give you anything. I worked hard for it and it's not cheap to replace." And end the discussion.