You should be PROUD that your house is the local hang out! There might be something that the "kids" are trying to tell you without using words!??!
When growing up, my mom never allowed us to have friends over. "What happened in our house stays in our house", is what she use to say! Not like we were going to go about and say anything, my dad lived in a different house, my sister had moved away, my oldest brother had moved away, so it was just my brother and I (13 months apart in age), and man did he like to control me and what I said or did!
So now in my house, it tell my son to have his friends over, any time of day and to do all legal stuff! You know, this house is always full. It doesn't matter to me if we have company or not, my goal is to raise my son to be a happy healthy young man who will become a productive member of society, and so far I think that I can pat myself on the back!