Originally Posted by mary quite contrary
That's funny! I can relate. Mine can be helpful if he wants to. The problem is getting him to want to.
Same here! I've picked up a terrible cold,(from DGS). Yesterday I felt pretty bad and didn't really do anything. He did load the dish washer, but that's as far as he goes with the dishes except he does unload the dishwasher if I run it. He usually takes out the trash. It has been evolving since he retired. I doubt it will ever be 50/50, but one thing in my favor, mostly if I ask, he will do things. :lol: