My husband and I are retired. He helps a lot. Now that he's back on his feet having had breast cancer, modified radical mastectomy, chemo and radiation, he's very much part of keeping house as well as outside grass cutting and yard work during warmer weather. He does easy meals, pasta and reheats. We grocery shop together, or he shops alone.
I had to adjust to his being around a lot and getting into what was once my territory. We're settled in now and enjoying our retired life together and thanking God for it. As he said, he's looked the grim reaper in the face and now he savors each day.