My heart goes out to those of you who have put your heart, effort, time and money into making a beautiful quilt for someone who treated it like a dirty rag. You know, everyone has their own likes and dislikes but there is no excuse for lack of manners. I have gotten things I didn't particularly like but still said thank you because it is the proper thing to do. After that do with it as you wish but don't be so mean to the person who was so very thoughtful of you.