I had the same problem as you did, even though I haven't read all of the answers here given I can tell you the ones I did read are very helpful...when I first started to FMQ someone suggested this site and it has been the best learning tool I have used...she confirms all that has been said here, and also shows you what to do! I watched all her videos and each has so much to offer, like having a teacher for free right there in you own home...Plus, Somehow just watching it will help just wait and see...along with the three P's. Good luck and keep us informed how you are doing with FMQ.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=39I5A...os=81riuZPj3q8