I agree with all of the above! Think of quilting as something we do for us! How would you like to be remembered in the future? For what a great housekeeper you were, or for what beautiful quilts you made! I use to try & do it all, & make everyone in the house happy, but I got over that, & it took a long time. Now, I pretty much quilt when I want to quilt. It's just the two of us now, with hardly every any company at the house here, so I clean when I want to clean, when it bugs me, otherwise, I have more enjoyable & productive pastimes to fill my days & I am so much happier this way! The guilt is still there, at times, but most of the time, it's shoved to the back of my mind, lol...