Originally Posted by redkimba
I think you did the right thing. The 8-year-old needs to learn that all actions have consequences, both good and bad.
I also agree....an 8 year old should already have learned that lesson...
Pardon my opinion, but it seems that he is allowed to get away with a lot more than he should by his parents. I think you and your husband did exactly what was necessary. Woe be his parents in the years to come.... and I'd bet that in the not too distant future, you will probably hear him mention this experience .... a learning experience.