Originally Posted by julia58
I have always believed in "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all." And by all means "I sure don't want to offend anyone, but...." This thread has opened my eyes. I THOUGHT quilters were a nice bunch of people.... After this thread, and a few others I see the light on how some of you really are. Just let me say this, I hope none of you are ever put in the position this young man has had to lower himself to. Because you wouldn't deserve the doghouse outside to sleep in.
I can see you are probably a very sensitive person. However, I never read anything that wasn't tough love. As an older person, I can attest to there are times when a child needs to grow up. His Mother is certainly taking him in and no one has suggested less.