I feel soo much better now ,,A rant allways feels better :) I would like to thank you for your kindness ,O f course with the stash thingy I would be willing to pay by paypal upfront when the postage is worked out :) And sadly we dont have thrift shops , but do have charity shops , but they never get sewing stuff much ,,,,,anyway ,Ive had a choc eclair and feel revived ,,,,,,,,,,thanks again all :)