well I know who I am....and I like her! I'm not trendy. I couldn't begin to tell you what is in style.....I can tell you what's comfortable though. It could be technology.....dh and I were talking about things earlier and one of my dreams has always been to live in Montana....where its wild and rugged. He said it wouldn't matter...there were satelites that could focus in on anyone, anywhere. That's the night I dreamed about the mall. The phone one......my mother and I have been estranged for years. I wish it could be different but have accepted that it probably never will be. I've also had an ex boyfriend almost stalking me.....from 25 years ago!