I have a variety of relaxations...some of which sound like work, but because they're different, actually do the trick. If the weather is not too hot or too cold I like cutting back underbrush, trimming trees, burning brush, etc. Otherwise I can be found on this board, quilting (duh!), snuggled up with a good book, sunk in bubbles in my big ole tub, playing single player strategy games on my laptop or Sudoku on my Blackberry or doing something with DGS.