Just a little more: My children learned how to focus on the REALLY IMPORTANT THINGS in life. My son had 2 masters degrees, has studied in Austria and Germany for 7 summers, taught in Austria 1 summer and studied at the Kodaly Institute in Hungary 1 summer (the only student there accepted from the U.S.) He is now getting his doctorate in music at LSU. My daughter graduated from Virginia Tech in May 2010 with a masters degree and is presently a college professor; heading for doctoral degree in fall 2012.