I'd find a job there first especially in this economy. Then by all means go be with your family. So many businesses now only accept applications on line so use your vacation for interviews. I know people who have been out of work more than 2 years which is extremely stressful. Meanwhile start going through stuff and maybe even start packing[( the stuff you don't use often but won't part with) write on the boxes what all is in them], painting(if suggested by realator for sale of house), etc.