Sorry your husband is like that.
I'm also in the very lucky category. I have only been quilting for about a year but DH loves it. He even bought me a hand quilting frame for Christmas so I can do larger quilts. He said he doesn't feel so guilty when he leaves to go hunting or fishing because he knows that I have a hobby that I can enjoy while he is gone. I do try to do hand quilting in my lap frame or cross stitch upstairs with him when he is home and in the house. So we are both happy campers