my hubby was that way when we first got married, I couldn't even read a book that he was complaining. I've always been one not to just sit. I'll sit and watch tv but not just that, have to be doing something also.. hes now learned of 30 yrs of marriage to hush and go on.. he does complain about my stash mess... but i have very little space. I just ignore him on that too...haha