I know that must hurt, as quilting has become part of your identity, a creative expression and something that brings you joy. My husband of almost 45 years was fine all the years I sewed for the children. When I turned to quilting, he just didn't get it. Why in the world would anyone want to buy fabric to cut up in little pieces just to sew it all up again? Why not just buy a blanket? But then, I've never gotten his love of football either. Why in the world would anyone want to sit and watch guys kick or toss a piece of pig skin up and down a field? If you've seen one, you've seen them all:-) So we understand that we will probably never agree on these topics. I try to be flexible. When his games are on, I'm usually in my sewing room quilting away. When he wants us to watch a Hallmark movie or something, I have hand piecing that I can work on. I always try and have handwork to work on in waiting rooms or when we make car trips. He does comment that the things I make are pretty, and he is proud when I give something I've made as a gift. I think they just need to know that they are still first place in our lives, and as long as we keep that a priority, cook their favorite meal etc., they are reassured and more tolerant with us for the things that are meaningful to us. No doubt there are many on this board who can relate to some elements of what you shared. May I send a hug along with a hang in there. You are right; it is important that you pursue hobbies that bring you joy. I've faced some health issues in recent years along with caring for my mother-in-law who lives with us. My mother who lived in a nursing home died this summer, and also my step-grandson. When I went for my 6 mo. check-up, my doctor looked me squarely in the eye and told me that it was vital that I have hobbies and pursue them. I made sure to pass that information on to my husband, and I think it helped him to understand. Thanks so much for sharing!