This is the first I've signed on this site since Jan.14th when I got the news that my Mom was in the hospital and not expected to recover. Due to the weather and cancelations of so many flights I could not get a flight until Saturday so my husband and I jumped in the car and drove 12 straight hours (almost 800 miles) to get to my Mom. I didn't know they were keeping Mom on life support until I could get there. My sister and I had to make the hard decision; which we knew were her wishes, to turn off the machines Saturday morning. We buried Mom Tuesday. We drove home yesterday and yours was the first message I looked at. I'm sitting here crying with you.