Stop picking the wrong people to make quilts for...that's the rub. Make quilts for Project Linus, Quilts for Kids, Quilts of Valor! AND make some quilts for yourself- because before you can truly give love to others, you must love and value yourself! It's not necessary to "buy" the affection of people who are really worth having in your life. Quilts are teaching you a life lesson...are you ready to accept it? You are not cursed, nor are your quilts.