let me tell you this one which almost backfired. I was going to surprise my hubby with a birthday surprise cook out. His friend came over [he knew of the party] and my hubby kept serving him the koolaide I had made till it was about all gone,and I had hamburgers galore in regrig ready for the grill but he did question that ,they finally went out to finish up in the field and I reminded my hubby to be in @ 6 because a friend of his was going to stop by. All went well and little later he asked me what happened to that friend that was suppose to come....my little white lie. To this day I never knew why he didn't catch on but I said no more me doing surprise parties.