You don't really get that life can turn on a dime until it happens to you. In 2005 my husband fell down a flight of stairs sleepwalking which he had not ever done in our long married life. Because he went head first and was stopped by the wall he suffered some brain damage. Life as we had known it and the future as we planned it, became a sweet memory. We were a 2 income budget, suddenly down to 1. I took on extra work, responsibility and it seemed like the weight of the world. It took 2 1/2yrs to get perm. dis. God walked us through those dark & sad times, holding our hands and guiding us each step, each day, still does.
May God bless you abundantly.