I would try to stop thinking in negative ways & turn it into a positive. We have to learn as we evolve or else we're not growing! I, too, have been hurt & felt abandoned by friends who suddenly walked out of my life with no explanation. Then I heard the expression "A Reason or A Season" -- meaning that people come into your life -- some may only pass thru briefly, some may stay awhile or a lifetime, but they're there to teach you something about yourself or to fulfill some other purpose (maybe known only to God). But if we can learn from these experiences & change our negative behaviors, we may become who we were meant to be. You obviously have a generous heart, so find a good cause for your quilts to go to, until someone truly proves themselves to be "quilt-worthy"! Good Luck!