I am like Pat. I just make my house the way I want it....its alot of pink and purple. And I live with all sons. I dont dress in style at all, I wear hand me downs and hand me ups, (from the kids)....I dont really care HOW anyone dresses, or has there home...
With quilts, sometimes I will ask someone if they like this color with this other color, because if I am doing a charity quilt, I have to make sure the people will like it, lol!