An additional thought:
Do you remember the Bazooka Joe comics that came in the bubble gum? They would have funny words of wisdom at the bottom. One said "if you give someone $20 and never see them again, consider it a good investment". You might already be at that point, but if you're not, consider looking at it that you really don't want those people in your life and now they're gone. And I agree with what others were saying to make some quilts for charity (or certain family members that you may want out of your life :twisted: :twisted: ) and trust that they're going to people who will appreciate them and appreciate you :D