I've only read the first page of this thread, so sorry if someone already has said this.
A quilt made for a loved one is filled with LOVE, whether it's a panel quilt or has a million pieces in it! When I make quilts for my grandkids (on #9 out of 14) I spend time thinking of them, their talents, and I pray for them. So that is what quilts are made of..all of them...love. Don't let anyone talk down about them, whether PMSing or not. Just say "This IS a real quilt filled with all my love and prayers for my grandson!!"