why are people so sick.. My FIL passed away aweek ago and some women has come out of the wood work claiming to be his wife with a 17yr. old son.... ha why why must people put more hurt upon loved ones.. My DH says big deal she can't prove anything and he is not worried about it at all... although nothing is in his name (FIL). It still makes me want to find out where she is a give her some hurt of her own.. I know this is not what God would want me to do. But I am only human, and I do not want my DH to have to deal with some sick person trying to take advantage of us in our grief... this is a sick sick world.