Originally Posted by MissBarkey
The problem is me and my lack of self-confidence and skill. These ladies are good....really good. They are doing this quilt as either an investment (it was costly) or as an entry in shows. I am totally intimidated by their abilities and have ripped out all my blocks I've done so far..
Your post shows you know what the problem is and it sounds like not only are you looking to vent but you are looking for vindication that it is ok to quit and chalk it up as an expensive learning experience.
Nope - no way. You need to quit being so hyper critical of your self and stop comparing your work to the ladies who are making this BOM as a show entry. That is like thinking you can study under Micahelangelo and be able to produce like he does after just a few lessons!
You must continue, for the reasons you cited, to learn something and make a beautiful quilt for your bed. And ya know what, it is ok if a seam doesn't line up or a point gets cut off or an applique's curve isn't as smooth as the template. This quilt is for YOU and sometimes good enough is just that - Good Enough! Cut yourself a little slack, give yourself permission to have a less then perfect quilt. Seek advice and tutoring from the shop owners and ladies, but do not compare your work to theirs. So what if it isn't as good, it doesn't matter. Maybe give jack the ripper a day off or two and let that block go as is. In the end you will be much happier with yourself and your quilt and your self confidence will soar.