not sure if you have made this yet, but what about using a small section of the police fabric for a label of some sort.. that wouldnt be the main focal point, yet it would be there as a reminder of what a special girlfriend she was.. OR, how about making pockets using that fabric, and tucking encouraging notes, or thoughts , or quotes of other people who have lost loved ones in the line of duty? if you know of any, I mean? just thinking here for ya, friend..