Everyone quilts for a different reason. Are you in this BOM because you like the project, or you have a friend you are doing it with? Perhaps you have a purpose, to make a quilt for your bed, friend, daughter, etc. Still others do it to compete. If so, maybe you should invest in your own self, and ignore the reasons the others are doing it. Give that to yourself. Personally, I love the time alone with myself, creating. It's a break from my busy job, house, kids, dogs, and life. Good luck and let us know what you decide.