I say don't give up. I made my first quilt 17 years ago. I've quilted off and on over the years - NOTHING show quality that's for sure. I'm still learning - I have tons to learn! I still can't always get my points and corners to match up "perfectly" but I get them close enough and call it a day. It's suppose to be FUN not stressful!!!! Don't let them intimidate you - I know that's easier said than done.