When my oldest was young (but old enough to know better) the next door neighbor came over to tell me she caught him and her daughter outside "checking each other out" if you get my meaning. I gave him a stern talking to about it. The mother was happy and left. Years later he asked me if I remembered the incident...yes I did. Well, says son...it was the girls idea! I asked why he hadn't said anything when I was chewing him out and said he didn't know...
Diannia