God only knows why some people are just plain ignorant!! Some people don't care. I tend to think if it is family (close family) that can't afford something, I give in and give them the item. But if the friend is more than able to buy the pattern--tell her it is AGAINST THE LAW to give her a copy because it is copyrighted.
You will feel better after you do it the first time and it will be easier the next time.
Carol from NC