One of my "friends" is the same way. I have a couple of clutter bins in which I have a jumble of handouts, downloaded patterns, miscellaneous notes, take one flyers, etc. I've given-up trying the ethical approach with this woman because she just doesn't get it. Now, I say something to the fact that I think it's in one of those bins, I'll try to get to it in my "spare time". She forgets about it. Don't compromise your integrity.