I agree that you should set some rules and meet at different places. I also agree that meeting once a month is a good idea. Two other ladies in our church have ask that we get together once a month to work on our projects. We have decided to meet at different places. We will not begin for a couple weeks due to waiting on one of the ladies to move back to our town. I so excited and cannot wait to begin. I pray that things do work out for you. I say that if someone shows up drunk that you should ask her to leave.