Take a class, take a class, take a class.
Usually the local community college has a good beginners class for free or next-to-nothing.
I generally am a wall-flower, and I had a great time, so much so, that I took the class again, with another whole new group of quilters. Loved both classes.
I'm still wondering who I learned more from: the teacher or the other students.....
Take a class..........you'll meet some great new friends.