Hi Misty: I feel your unorganized pain. I have always been very organized but since I retired, I don't feel pressured to keep everything neat. But I work better when I do. I was a military wife for 21 years and managed everything when my husband was deployed. What I learned over the years of raising children, general house duties, being an RN, taking classes and teaching school was that I was a strong woman, became self-reliant, my own individual and not just an extension of my husband. You are a strong woman because they are the only ones that can handle the kind of situation you are in. Work on your sewing room slowly and part with what is not absolutely needed and/or used. Knowing what you do on a daily basis, you most likely need a rest. Maybe take a Friday off and go to a day spa and have a "me" day... or maybe your Mother could look after your children for a day or two and give you a break. Sometimes we just don't stop and rest for a while...
God bless and I know you can do it...