I won my fight with a different kind of cancer and in some ways do not always like all the attention going to breast cancer. There are many cancers in women, men and children and I would rather all cancers be recognized.
For me, it was like I had any serious medical problem that was resolved and I don't want to identify my self and my life as "a cancer survivor".
Maybe she'd rather move past it, too.
Bless you for your support and love to her.