Sure, my husband of 39 years has habits that annoy me, to say nothing of what I guess annoys him about me. But I always remind myself that I am lucky to have him. I was married for 9 years with 2 young children when my first husband died and I know what it is to be lonely. So I give thanks to hear him breathing beside me in bed at night - though the snoring does make this difficult at times! My widowed friends agree with me and when anyone complains, they gently remind them that they are lucky to still have their husbands.