I remember something that I read when I was younger..Can not remember where..but it went something like this.." one of the secrets to a happy marriage is when ever your spouse does something that is annoying say to yourself " I knew he/she was like this before we got married" regardless if its true or not..I do that when ever I start getting annoyed :P ..My hubby though is a wonderful, loving man..A very patient one too..Except when driving of course