I think it's great, just be very careful. I tried it, met a couple of really nice men and one real dog but had came to my senses before it was to late. Now I am thinking of trying it again, would like to be pen pals for awhile and see what happens. I have been widowed 3 years and I think online is best for me at this point in my life. A very wise person told me it is the safest way to meet someone these days and you will probably go throught some real loosers before the right one comes along. Best of luck to you. Keep us informed.