Hi I met my husband of 41yrs,we were pinpals.We wrote while he was in Viet Nam,He came home and we dated 1yr befor marriage. I know its not the same but I had to really think things through befor I took the plunge.Please pray for an answer to this.Ask God to help you find the right guy for you,wether on line or not.The bible says God has our life planed for us and it is our responsibility to pray and listen for his answer,because it is much better that we can do.There are a lot of good stories here and then some bad.Just use discernment,ask other christians to be in prayer for you and see what God will do.I will keep you in prayer and ask my friends to also pray on your behalf.