What the others said...after much soul searching I figured out what I did wrong the first two times. It doesn't matter where you meet someone, be careful. There are predators out there. I live in a community where it is really hard to meet people, so online is the way to meet people here. Met a lot of different types a couple of which are still friends. OK, on with it....I met my DH on the dating site. We lived within 6miles of each other for 5 years before we met. He is the most wonderful man and we complete each other. He supports my quilting efforts.